Now that i'm older i often think more about when i was younger, how your parents give you advice but also realise we need to learn things for ourselves. I think I've only just learn't this lesson. I can tell my children everything i know, but in the end they need to believe it and one way or another learn it for themselves. And I hope at a point of time in the future they too will learn for their children they can only guide and advise but in the end the learning is always left to oneself.
on another note, i need some interests in life beyond sport, family, the garden, working and creating in my workshop. nature will probably give me some clues.